I don’t know why but this one stuck with me over the years. As a teenager I worked at my local ice rink & it was difficult when I started out because I was terribly shy. I did form a group of friends though & became part of the general social scene there (lots of high school & college students. It was a mini soap opera!).
Another shy girl started working there & after awhile we became friends. One day she very bluntly informed me that she thought I was really snobby when she first met me & that I was really fully of myself. Ouch.