The lovely Sarah of Fairy Tales Are True ran this series a few weeks ago. And I’ve been thinking about it ever since, so thought I’d share what I’ve learned, especially now that I’ve entered into my final year in the 20′s.
{complete with old photos of me in my early 20′s. which explains some of these fashion choices}
Yes, marriage does change things.

{pretty fancy for 22!}
I started dating my husband weeks before I turned 20. And after 5 1/2 years of dating & over 1 1/2 years of living together, we scoffed at the idea that marriage would radically change anything. And at first it didn’t. But slowly I could tell we’re much more a pair than we ever were even engaged & all plans automatically are a shared decision. It just happens. Now after 9 years I can tell a difference from the dating us to the married us.

{Besides the fact that we’re a little less fun to hang out with. Anyone want to watch some HGTV at our house?!}

Embrace who you are.

{senior year of college, with my roomie. my shirt looks like wallpaper, yes.}
This one has taken me a long time to accept & I don’t think I fully recognized & accepted myself until this past year. There are things about me I do not like. I will never be the life of the party or be able to easily talk to a stranger without feeling awkward. That’s okay. I am an introvert who does not like big groups of people (unless they’re teenagers, apparently. What introvert teaches?!) & I need to just accept that.
Keep a close group of girlfriends around you- always.

{my other college roomie- we look 12!}
I have a small circle of girlfriends who I adore & can turn to whenever I need them. We have years behind us & I hope years & years ahead of us. I may not have a list of 30 friends to call up at a moment’s notice, but I do know the girls I do have would be there for me no matter what.

{good friends put up with this nonsense}
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I am a much happier, secure, & open person then I was when I was 20. I feel like its a decade where you don’t realize how much you need to grow & find yourself, but once its over you can’t imagine how you ever though you knew it all at 22, 24. I’ve noticed a lot of the same themes in reading Sarah’s series & it makes me look forward to what I’ll learn in my 30′s!
What is the biggest lesson you learned in your 20′s?








































































