What My 20′s Have Taught Me

The lovely Sarah of Fairy Tales Are True ran this series a few weeks ago. And I’ve been thinking about it ever since, so thought I’d share what I’ve learned, especially now that I’ve entered into my final year in the 20′s.

{complete with old photos of me in my early 20′s. which explains some of these fashion choices}

Yes, marriage does change things.

{pretty fancy for 22!}
I started dating my husband weeks before I turned 20. And after 5 1/2 years of dating & over 1 1/2 years of living together, we scoffed at the idea that marriage would radically change anything. And at first it didn’t. But slowly I could tell we’re much more a pair than we ever were even engaged & all plans automatically are a shared decision. It just happens. Now after 9 years I can tell a difference from the dating us to the married us.

{Besides the fact that we’re a little less fun to hang out with. Anyone want to watch some HGTV at our house?!}

Be open to changing your life plan.
I was very open to changing my plan in my early twenties. In fact, I did. Weekly. I graduated college with a political science degree, a non-paid internship, & a comfy spot in my childhood bedroom. Living the dream!
After many plans that didn’t last, I had my Oprah “a-ha” moment. My personality did not fit with a career in politics & I am not a person who handles a high-stress environment well. I realized I wanted to teach about government & politics, not so much be in it.
I of course called my mother with my final plan & she kindly reminded me how she had said for the past 10 years teaching would be a good fit.
Mothers.

 Embrace who you are.

{senior year of college, with my roomie. my shirt looks like wallpaper, yes.}

This one has taken me a long time to accept & I don’t think I fully recognized & accepted myself until this past year. There are things about me I do not like. I will never be the life of the party or be able to easily talk to a stranger without feeling awkward. That’s okay. I am an introvert who does not like big groups of people (unless they’re teenagers, apparently. What introvert teaches?!) & I need to just accept that.

Keep a close group of girlfriends around you- always.


{my other college roomie- we look 12!}

I have a small circle of girlfriends who  I adore & can turn to whenever I need them. We have years behind us & I hope years & years ahead of us. I may not have a list of 30 friends to call up at a moment’s notice, but I do know the girls I do have would be there for me no matter what.

{good friends put up with this nonsense}

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I am a much happier, secure, & open person then I was when I was 20. I feel like its a decade where you don’t realize how much you need to grow & find yourself, but once its over you can’t imagine how you ever though you knew it all at 22, 24. I’ve noticed a lot of the same themes in reading Sarah’s series & it makes me look forward to what I’ll learn in my 30′s!

What is the biggest lesson you learned in your 20′s?

Summer Prep: Hair

The weather is getting warmer & the students are getting spazzier, so clearly that means summer is around the corner. And having stared at my pasty white legs in my cute sundress this weekend, I realized that its time to do some summer prep!

So aside from the fake tanner, I wanted to share some of my favorite products to not only prep for summer to come but to use all the way until September.

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I get my hair highlighted so I have to be extra careful about it getting dried out. I love this hair mask that I get at Target. And of course any processed hair needs some good shampoo- I have no idea if this really keeps my highlights looking good but I feel like it does!

Frizz-Ease is great for my straight hair flyaways, especially the heat activated version since I like my hair dryer.

And when I don’t feel like doing my hair or the hair dryer seems like a terrible idea in 90 degree heat, I like to use the sea spray or just throw my hair in a pony. I recently bought these ties off of etsy & love the collection of colors you can get.

Finally my go-to look this spring has been the top bun.

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Lauren Conrad’s beauty website has the perfect how-to, though I recently bought a hair donut to cheat. It’s pretty much the best investment I ever made! So easy to do my hair now.

What’s your favorite summer hair product?

The Year of the Babies

Wedding madness seems to be slowing down & quickly being replaced with baby showers. I had one this past weekend & another this upcoming weekend, plus a week old nephew.

I am slowly becoming a shower expert (as an attendee at least) so thought I’d share some great gift ideas that I’ve picked up.

{And may have stolen already!}

If you are a new mom & do not have Sophie the giraffe, you will not survive. At least that is what I’ve gathered from every single mom exclaiming that this is the best teether/toy ever invented.

I got my sister-in-law the bath stuff she put on her registry but of course wanted to add cute toys. I found there aren’t a ton for newborns but loved these soft bath toys.

Baby clothes, blankets, or socks are too cute to pass up, even if the new mother will be getting a ton.

Another idea to go with the bath theme- a cute hooded towel.

Mommy & baby will need lots of care & I loved this gift set that my friend got this past Saturday.

Finally, my sister-in-law got a robe & my friend & I copied it for this past weekend’s gift. Think about it- mom is going to wake up all the time in the middle of the night & will want something soft to put on. Plus baby showers are so much about the little one that its nice to give the mom-to-be a present for herself.

Any other favorite gifts? I’ve got more showers coming up so keep bringing them my way!

to the mamas

To the best momma a girl could have :)

I’m only hoping that one day I can be like her as a mom.

{fur babies don’t count}

And Happy Mother’s Day to all the new moms (including my sister-in-law) & soon-to-be moms in my life!

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Can’t wait to meet all the 2012 little ones!

The Ten: A Loyal Love

Its Friday! And I have a fun filled weekend – date night tonight, then my nephew’s First Communion & a baby shower for one of my besties tomorrow. Love celebrating with friends & family! Plus I had another nephew born this week! So many fun things happening this spring.

Another fun thing? I’ve completed yet another (and by another I think this is whopping #3- oops) on my 30 Before 30 list- guest posting on Nautical by Nature today! Go see a fun nautical find from Portland.

But now on to The Ten. Today’s blogger is another DC gal who I met through CapFABB! Tammy from A Loyal Love has a gorgeous blog & great style. Just check out her daily outfit posts- definitely attainable but very chic.

House of Pain’s “Jump Around”.

I’m currently reading I Don’t Know How She Does It by Allison Pearson. The book is about juggling a full-time career with being a mother and whether it’s possible to be successful at both. They recently made a movie out of it, but I’m one of those people who like to read the book before seeing the movie. The book is always better.

Pretty in Pink. It’s one of the few DVDs that I own. I’m in with love the scene where Duckie lip sings Otis Redding’s “Try a Little Tenderness” to Andie in effort to win her over. It’s also one of my favorite songs.

Hello Kitty. You can’t look at her without smiling.

Aimee Song from Song of Style. She’s got this super cool, laid back, Cali style. In my mind, she spends her days cruising around LA/SanFran on her skateboard and eating ice cream cones.

I’m addicted to Celebrity Apprentice. I watch it every week! The show always reveals a side of someone that I never expect to see.

The future? Not that I want to be/get older, but I’m so curious to see how technology will continue to evolve.

Christopher Wallace aka The Notorious B.I.G. Like me, he likes to “sip champagne when {he’s} thirst-ay”.

Birthday cakes – the multi-layered, professional looking ones with the intricate details. You can eat cake as a meal right?

I REALLY want to know how to sew and make patterns. My mom use to make a lot of my clothes when I was little, and I would love to do the same for my kids.

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Visiting Portland, Maine

No distractions this time- here is the official Portland recap!

We only spent about 48 hours in Maine but we still accomplished a lot. Actually, ate a lot. I think that’s an accomplishment, though. Right?

The trip was originally planned as a getaway for the four of us who went to NYC last year (& hung out with Cuba Gooding jr). We wanted to go to a city where none of us had ever been & since it was just for a weekend we were limited to the East Coast. So Portland was picked & although I found it random, the promise of lobster was enough to sell me!

So we left work early on Friday & started things off right with airport cocktails! We flew into Portland, got into our rental car, & drove to downtown Portland to our hotel, the Portland Harbor Hotel (highly recommended).

Our main focus that night was to get ourselves settled in & head to dinner at perhaps the most unique restaurant I’ve ever been in: Grace.

The restaurant is in a converted Methodist church & is absolutely gorgeous.

I had the soft shell crabs (kicking off my weekend of seafood) & the Holier Than Thou, which may have been one of the best cocktails I’ve had.

We had an earlier night to rest up for our food tour on Saturday (priorities, people). We went through Maine Foodie Tours & this was certainly the highlight of the entire trip. Delicious food, a little history & culture, & a feel for where the locals go- perfect!

I already posted about our favorite stop but other favorites:

cheese & wine- my favorites!

{Though the wine is made from honey, which I found less than pleasant}

(Dean was also the architect at Grace- love small cities!}

Harold, our awesome tour guide, & smoked salmon

Stonewall Kitchen!

The tour ended at the Shipyard brewery, which was soon followed by…

our tour of the Allagash brewery.

So much deliciousness was clearly followed by lots of shopping which then led to a nap.

{Vacation is exhausting!}

We did get to see a lot of the sites though, most of which involved some sort of lobster paraphernalia:

We got dressed up for the 2nd night in a row (a miracle!) to go to Fore Street, considered one of the best restaurants in Portland.

Little known fact, Portland is a major foodie town (if you haven’t picked up on it) & Fore Street was named #16 of the top 50 U.S. restaurants in 2002. Aren’t we fancy?

After dinner we headed out to get a taste of the local music scene, a all female reggae group. Hey, definitely different!

Sunday was spent getting massages at a local spa, which should have probably been done after we visited the nearby town of Freeport since we were a little out of it!

Freeport has a lot of great shopping, including the LL Bean flagship store. It was probably good that we didn’t have much time there but I did manage to fit in my goal of the weekend at the last moment:

Eating a lobster roll for every day we were there. It was fantastic.

We flew back pretty exhausted but very, very full. Except for the cold winters I was ready to move there. I’m also sure I’d gain about 200 lbs if that happened but lobster is healthy, right?

{Especially on rolls}

Anyone visited Portland before? Or other parts of Maine that are must-sees?

Spring Makeover

I was all ready to put together a post on my trip to Portland…. when instead I spent the entire night redoing the look of the blog.

Oops.

If I had a pink laptop....

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All I want this spring are pretty pinks & soft colors, so I guess that’s what I really wanted for the blog too!

What do you think? This is the first time I’ve personally redesigned the site so any feedback would be helpful.

{And I promise the Portland post will come tomorrow. I can’t spend another night playing with fonts & colors!}

JEM~LEW: The Love Project PreLaunch Party

Remember a couple of weeks ago I wrote about my new scarf from JEM? Well, I was thrilled when she contacted me to let me know about a prelaunch party on May 16 for her new collaboration, The Love Project.

Jennifer Miller has teamed up with Melissa Lew to create a line of eco-friendly jewelry that will officially launch at the MTV Movie Awards this May.

Parts of the proceeds goes to charities like Becky’s Fund, DC Central Kitchen, & Miriam’s Kitchen.

So not only are these pieces amazing, they’re for a good cause!

The prelaunch party before the MTV Movie Awards is going to be hosted at Willow Restaurant, in Ballston. So if  you’re in the DC metro area you don’t want to miss it.

Check out their facebook page & rsvp for the event- you’ll see me there! I cannot wait!

Monday Musings: Guacamole!

There’s nothing like a relaxing weekend to recharge you for a week of crazy teenagers! We did a lot of socializing this weekend but managed to fit in a lot of being lazy too. And other than being forced to watch Thor on Friday night, it was all pretty great!

The highlight of Saturday though was our friends’ Cinco de Mayo Guac-Off. Eight of us got together to compete over whose guacamole was best. And while I was not a winner, I was pretty proud that mine was edible. I have such high expectations of my cooking!

Since I knew my regular guac recipe would not hold up to the deliciousness of some of my friends who have painstakingly perfected theirs I went with something different: BLT guac. I found the inspiration here, but added in a little less mayo & a little more bacon.

Really, I think its best to eyeball everything to your taste & not strictly follow a recipe.

Avocados

Mayonnaise

Bacon, crumbled

A dash of hot sauce

Splash of lime juice

tomatoes

Mix everything together with a fork, except for the tomatoes which you will dice up & add at the end.

Simple enough & a different take on guacamole.

Our hosts also served us some delicious margaritas & had a taco bar for the post-guac. A ridiculous amount of good food but it made for such a fun get-together!

What did everyone do for the Derby or Cinco de Mayo? Or did you ignore both?

The Ten: Chevron & Eclairs

Thank goodness its Friday! My excitement is solely for the fact I get to sleep in tomorrow- its the little things in life, right?

I’m also excited for today’s Ten with Supal from Chevron & Eclairs. She’s one of my favorite bloggers & the creator behind the monthly series Art to Inspiration. She’s also prepping for a big move to London for grad school, so make sure you’re following her because I’m pretty sure we’d all like to live vicariously through her!


I guess the real question is, what music does not make me want to get up and dance? After being classically trained in different genres of dance [including Indian classical dancing!] I’ve basically danced to all kinds of music. I do, however, love some good club style jamming out. When I’m overwhelmingly stressed, especially during my college days, I would head over to the dance halls and turn on and dance to anything from Hometown Glory by Adele to Indian instrumental music.

My go-to book would be Jane Eyre. It’s my favorite book of all time and I read it multiple times a year. Considering the circumstance, I would read any classic romance novel. My favorites include : Jane Eyre, The Great Gatsby, Swan in Love and The Fox.
Easy. City Lights starring Charlie Chaplin. Personally, I think all black and white films are charming, but this silent film is even more. It’s a romantic film about a blind flower girl and a tramp during the Depression-era. The simplicity of the film and dynamic setting makes it one of the most charming films I’ve ever watched and leaves you in a trance.

Nancy Drew, remember her? I read every single Nancy Drew book when I was in grade school. She is beautiful, smart and a detective. When I was younger, I used to climb up on a tree that was in our backyard with a small notepad and pen. I would pretend I was spying on “bad guys” and would take “notes” to “solve a mystery.” To me, she was a renaissance woman.
It would have to be Jamie Beck. I love her photography, wardrobe and her jet-setting lifestyle. Following her blog has gotten me interested in photography, and I am actually doing a mentorship with a local photographer for the next 5 months to learn a few tips and tricks. Plus, Jamie has told me that photography doesn’t come from learning, it comes from actually doing it… so I’m taking her advice!

I absolutely love, love, love Gossip Girl. I can watch episodes over and over again. The drama, wardrobe, lifestyle, Nate Archibald just intrigues me. My senior year in college I would actually look up photos of Blair Waldorf’s outfits and try to copy them, even the headbands! Now, I have so many headbands… and I’ll probably still wear them.
Obviously the roaring 20s [and I think I should have had a sweet apartment in Chicago]! I love jazz and and the jazz culture. If the sweet voices of Ella Fitzgerald, Bessie Smith, Billie Holiday and Janis Joplin are incredible one vinyl, I would do anything to go back in time just to listen to them live.
Gandhi. Obviously he is wise and was politically influential during his day, but I would want to thank him for all that he had done for my family in India. I’m sure without him, my family and I would not be living the American dream. On top of that, my grandfather has some wild stories from the days of Gandhi!
Parisian Macaroons are considered a meal, right? I’ve been making my own variations of macaroons for about a year now. I haven’t come up with the perfect personal recipe, but it’s almost there. My pictures make the macaroons look like they are picture perfect. The ones in the photographs are, but I usually only have about 10 that turn out great in a batch of 30.
I wish I knew how to play the saxophone. With a love for jazz, this one is a simple one. One of my favorite saxophonist is Gary Bartz who has worked with Miles Davis. Sometimes I wish my mom had me take 9 years of sax lessons instead of piano!
Thanks so much for having me, Kellie! I’m a big fan of this weekly feature and honored to be part of it :)
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